I am +n on the bot and in any channel with protect ops on if i deop a +o user I get deop'd myself. Is there anything I can enable so that I dont get deoped being the owner and all?
Either yet, if you still want revenge to be on for others, and especially when someone fingers around with the bot itself, and the bot does revenge for itself. Remove +revenge and put on +revengebot.
+revenge takes revenge on behalf of +f/+o users whereas +revengebot makes the bot take revenge only if the bot was kicked/deopped/banned.