I think all your questions could be solved easily if you just explored slennox command reference, or just typed .help chaninfo, but here goes. Bitch only allow users with the +o flag to be ops on the channel
revenge take revenge on anyone who deops or kicks friends or ops
revengebot take revenge on anyone who deops or kicks the bot
If your nick is Commandor on the bot, type .whois Commandor and let us see what flags you have set for yourself. The +d flag tells the bot to never allow this person to op. Do you have +d? Also might be a good idea to show us your default channel settings from .chaninfo.