found the problem. Files were in the place. my bro that has root access to server edited inetd file and added weird line. that runs every minute file /home/mntkz/egaz/eggdrop eggdrop.conf
when i deleated that line it was all good and running sorry about no good post just i was wondering what the hell happened it took long time to figure it out
inetd is responsible for lauching programs to manage an incoming netowrk connection, wihtout having to run that program as a demon in the background.
If your borther has added a line that will listen for connections on the port you are chosing for your eggdrop, then yes, this will cause issues, but not the ones you discribed.
The ones you discribed showed language issues, which are 101% unrelatedto network connections.
IE, if files are missing, then a network connection isn't gonna fix it.